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First Written 1848
Genre Fiction
Origin UK
Publisher Everyman
My Copy everyman edition (plus audio plus Gutenberg)
First Read August 08, 2023

Dombey and Son



OK, after having finished it I stand by my note that not knowing the plot of this was SUPER fun. The late introduction of Alice, and Carker's final reveal felt a little bit like they were bussed in from another district, but I enjoyed it all the same.

Noted on August 22, 2023

WHAT. It's Good Mrs Browns long lost daughter???!!!!

Noted on August 10, 2023

I am loving NOT knowing the plot of this book. I just got to chapter 33. What just happened?Who are these people? Bold move to introduce them mysteriously on p435!

Noted on August 10, 2023

Carker is such a great character. The smiling, unctuous servant who agrees w/ everybody and smiles with way too many teeth. The teeth get mentioned ALL the time. He unsettles people, but 400 pages in, he hasn't done anything nefarious. He hasn't even done anything that's actually creepy? But he MUST be up to something! He's so clearly written as a creepy guy, and Dickens can't get enough of telling us how many teeth this guy shows to people.

Noted on August 8, 2023

Dombey wanted the same thing Senex wants in The Book of the Dun Cow: to have himself as a son. He wants a partner to share his plans, riches, etc with. But he really wants not a partner, but himself, he was trying to turn Paul into a little golem of himself.

Noted on August 8, 2023

I legitimately have no idea what the plot of Dombey and Son is, and so while ‘bad things happen to kids’ is common in Dickens, I was really not prepared for the scene when Florence gets lost. So when (spoilers) a little girl, in a part of the city she doesn’t know, gets separated from her nanny in a crowd, and AN OLD WOMAN tempts her away, locks her in a house, strips off her expensive clothes, nearly cuts all her pretty hair off - I was really distressed by this! I think in part bc I was listening to that segment on audio and so it just feels more personal and intimate. But man, I was surprised and stressed.

Noted on August 8, 2023

I was really in the mood for a Dickens book to read, and so I am simultaneously doing this one in three streams: audio via Librivox, phone via Project Gutenberg, and my paper copy. It’s a weird way to read this?

Noted on August 8, 2023

'If I hadn't,' said Susan Nipper, evidently struggling with some latent anxiety and alarm, and looking full at her young mistress, while endeavouring to work herself into a state of resentment with the unoffending Mr Perch's image, 'if I hadn't more manliness than that insipidest of his sex, I'd never take pride in my hair again, but turn it up behind my ears, and wear coarse caps, without a bit of border, until death released me from my insignificance. I may not be a Amazon, Miss Floy, and wouldn't so demean myself by such disfigurement, but anyways I'm not a giver up, I hope'

Quoted on August 29, 2023

The excellent and thoughtful old system, hallowed by long prescription, which has usually picked out from the rest of mankind the most dreary and uncomfortable people that could possibly be laid hold of, to act as instructors of youth, finger-posts to the virtues, matrons, monitors, attendants on sick beds, and the like, had established Mrs. Wickam in very good business as a nurse, and had led to her serious qualities being particularly commended by an admiring and numerous connexion.

Quoted on August 22, 2023

It was not in the nature of things that a man of Mr Dombey’s mood, opposed to such a spirit as he had raised against himself, should be softened in the imperious asperity of his temper; or that the cold hard armour of pride in which he lived encased, should be made more flexible by constant collision with haughty scorn and defiance. It is the curse of such a nature—it is a main part of the heavy retribution on itself it bears within itself—that while deference and concession swell its evil qualities, and are the food it grows upon, resistance and a questioning of its exacting claims, foster it too, no less. The evil that is in it finds equally its means of growth and propagation in opposites. It draws support and life from sweets and bitters; bowed down before, or unacknowledged, it still enslaves the breast in which it has its throne; and, worshipped or rejected, is as hard a master as the Devil in dark fables.

Quoted on August 22, 2023

A withered and very ugly old woman, dressed not so much like a gipsy as like any of that medley race of vagabonds who tramp about the country, begging, and stealing, and tinkering, and weaving rushes, by turns, or all together, had been observing the lady, too; for, as she rose, this second figure strangely confronting the first, scrambled up from the ground—out of it, it almost appeared—and stood in the way.

“Let me tell your fortune, my pretty lady,” said the old woman, munching with her jaws, as if the Death’s Head beneath her yellow skin were impatient to get out.

Quoted on August 8, 2023

[Ch 24. Dickens makes fun of the modern networker:]

Sir Barnet’s object in life was constantly to extend the range of his acquaintance. Like a heavy body dropped into water—not to disparage so worthy a gentleman by the comparison—it was in the nature of things that Sir Barnet must spread an ever widening circle about him, until there was no room left. Or, like a sound in air, the vibration of which, according to the speculation of an ingenious modern philosopher, may go on travelling for ever through the interminable fields of space, nothing but coming to the end of his moral tether could stop Sir Barnet Skettles in his voyage of discovery through the social system.

Sir Barnet was proud of making people acquainted with people. He liked the thing for its own sake, and it advanced his favourite object too. For example, if Sir Barnet had the good fortune to get hold of a law recruit, or a country gentleman, and ensnared him to his hospitable villa, Sir Barnet would say to him, on the morning after his arrival, “Now, my dear Sir, is there anybody you would like to know? Who is there you would wish to meet? Do you take any interest in writing people, or in painting or sculpturing people, or in acting people, or in anything of that sort?” Possibly the patient answered yes, and mentioned somebody, of whom Sir Barnet had no more personal knowledge than of Ptolemy the Great. Sir Barnet replied, that nothing on earth was easier, as he knew him very well: immediately called on the aforesaid somebody, left his card, wrote a short note,—“My dear Sir—penalty of your eminent position—friend at my house naturally desirous—Lady Skettles and myself participate—trust that genius being superior to ceremonies, you will do us the distinguished favour of giving us the pleasure,” etc, etc.—and so killed a brace of birds with one stone, dead as door-nails.

[ Also: how good is that joke at the end of the first paragraph? He sets you up to think about the far reaches of space, primes you to think about the solar system, and then flips it: ‘voyage of discovery through the social system.’ Just very deft. ]

Quoted on August 8, 2023


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